To bare or not to bare?

The big U.S. debate on breastfeeding in public? Nope, no one is going to get kicked off a plane or asked to go somewhere else in Brazil.

To bare or not to bare?
Mãe Preta (Black Mother) statue in a São Paulo square dedicated to women who gave birth as slaves.

I’ve seen moms whip them out and stick it in the the kid’s mouth on buses, in shopping malls, and even at the gym. Does anyone gawk? Anyone complain to management? Please! Brazilians doesn’t even bat an eye, the the moms don’t use coverups.

Also, from what I can tell, breast feeding goes on longer here with children than in the U.S. I’ve seen newborns to walking toddlers nursing.  It’s all very natural here. The little one gets fussy, the mom picks him up, and that’s that.

There are also fraldas, which literally translates to diaper, in almost every public place. These are rooms especially for nursing moms to go and be with their babies, equipped with rocking chairs, changing stations, and everything else you need to take care of the little one.

Personally, I don’t have kids so I’ve never had to deal with this situation. However, in my opinion, it’s a mom’s decision. If she’s comfortable and the baby is happy, why not? I may avert my eyes to the somewhat awkward scene, but I’m just happy there aren’t that many crying kids on public transportation in the country.

What’s your opinion? Do you think it’s just a natural part of life or should moms take it behind closed doors?

-Monica

 

Stephanie Cirihal

Ha! I think if you stay in Brazil long enough, the scene isn’t even awkward anymore and you don’t have to avert your eyes!

I think it is a natural part of life, however I must admit that when I see an older toddler still nursing I for some reason don’t agree with that. Which is funny, because I don’t have children either, so obviously I am not an expert.

Chris & Monica Rodgers

Stephanie, thanks for reading and leaving your thoughts. I’m sure I would have gotten to the point where it didn’t surprise me any longer, and it was just nice that breastfeeding didn’t cause such an uproar there like it does in the U.S.

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